Top 100 Entry 4: Dame Judith Parker

The fourth entrant in our Top 100 Most Passionate Person on the Planet competition, Dame Judith Parker.

PASSION: Education of Girls and Women Worldwide

Dame Judith Parker1.  How are you living with your passion?

My passion is the education of girls and women so they can reach their full potential and live happy and fulfilling lives. I live my passion by continually encouraging women to educate themselves, to grasp opportunities and  believe in themselves. I explore and develop ways girls and women can gain education.

2.  How did you work out what your passion is?

I saw my parents suffer through their lack of education, particularly my mother who had little education.  I realised when I was a teenager how much better her life would have been had she had an education.  She gave me the advantage of an excellent education and I wanted to repay some of her sacrifice by making the world a better place for other women.

3.  What choices have you made to embrace and pursue your passion in your life and what sacrifice has this required?

I chose to extend my education by completing two uni degrees at night while working full time and bringing up two teenage children. This meant I had to be a good time manager and sacrifice many fun things I would have done. I chose to devote a lot of my income to programs which would enable women to gain an education such as building water tanks at the top of the Kadoka track in PNG to enable women and young girls to go back to school instead of carting water. I have worked on 34 overeas programs as a volunteer which have ensured women and girls have the right and opportunity to have an education. My sacrifice has been time and money. In reality, who needs a new dress when a small amount of money sent to India can change the lives of many. At present I volunteer as a home tutor to refugee children to enhance their education.

4.  What has been the outcome of making these choices, both positive and negative?

The outcome has been a great deal of satisfaction. To see these girls and women grow in confidence and use new skills, gives me great satisfaction. One of the negatives is that you can only help a few. However I believe in the ripple effect. The girls educated today will educate others tomorrow.

Another negative is that the task is never finished, there is always someone else needing help, another injustice, another brick wall in front of one. The positives are the achievements. An example is that I ran a program where I had the help of women all over the world. I took young prostitutes off the streets in Motherwell, South Africa and sent them back to school. They were prostitutes to gain money for food for their siblings as all the adults in the family had died of HIV AIDS [a huge problem in South Africa]. One of the first aged 13 when I took her off the street gained entry to the Nelson Mandela University last year. If I do nothing else in my life I am satisfied I have given that young woman a chance in life. I have repaid some of my mother’s sacrifice to give me an education.

 

If her words do not inspire you enough, then I invite you to read Dame Judith Parker’s story in our next issue of Golden Pen Magazine.  The things that this woman has achieved in her lifetime are nothing short of amazing and I stand in awe of her wisdom and grace.

Top 100 Entry 1: Daena Guest

Daena Cooking Cupcakes

One of Daena’s acts of kindness: cooking cupcakes for a friend’s hens night.

The first entrant in our Top 100 Most Passionate Person on the Planet competition, Daena Guest.  Inspirational!  A must read…

PASSION:  Acts of Random Kindness

1. How are you living your passion?

I live my passion by doing a kind deed for another person everyday. Sometimes it is as simple as making my mum a cup of tea, to helping do the dishes at someone’s house after dinner, to giving out books, or even paying for someone’s meal or bananas. Kindness is so simple and doesn’t need to cost you an arm and a leg, there are so many free things you can do that can make a difference to another. You can write a thank you note, make a cup of tea, do some weeding for an elderly neighbour, carry something heavy for someone who looks like they are struggling, or even just smile or make conversation with a stranger. It is so simple but makes a HUGE difference to the person you are interacting with.

2. How did you work out what your passion is?

I wanted to do something meaningful for my birthday one year so i asked everyone i knew to do a kind deed for another and then give the report of it to me as my present. I had about 31 reports from people all over the world who did this, some people i didn’t even know. And that’s when I knew I wanted to keep doing this, making a small difference, in a big way. So I decided the best way to get other people to be kind is by acting by example. So everyday I write down a kind deed that I did and then when I get organised I blog about it so people can see how simple it is! All I hope is that I can inspire another to do kind acts for a day or for a week or like me, for a whole year at a time.

3. What choices have you made to embrace and pursue your passion in your life and what sacrifices has this required?

Firstly, I made the choice to do a kind deed every day for a whole year. After I survived that I thought I could do it again. So I did and then this year, I was just like “I cant stop now!” So I have signed up for another year of kindnesses; I don’t think i can stop now! I don’t think I want to stop now.

I decided to Blog about my mission for a kind deed a day, because I wanted to share its simplicity and its benefits because I think they are so important, I also wanted to share some of the problems I have faced, because unless you push through those then you will always think that the world is a bad place, when for me I am able to show people that its not as bad as you think. But if I gave up then it wouldn’t be that simple.

One of the sacrifices in my life, that has had an impact on my passion is that I gave up a career in Archaeology (for now) to look after my mum full time. She has spinal damage (and a whole lot more going on health wise), and she needs a full time carer. I decided to be a carer because she needs someone with her most of the time, and it may as well be me (mum calls this the ultimate kindness!). While this wasn’t a consequence of me starting the kindness crusade, it sure has helped me try a range of things and be more creative, than if I was away for several weeks at a time, or doing the 9-5 shift. It also allows me to post things on Facebook most days of the 365days of kindness Facebook page (thankfully it is very simple on my phone and takes about a minute and a half to do).

4. What has been the outcome of making those choices, both positive and negative?

I love blogging and I love writing but I get a bit technophobic sometimes. I really have to push through that so that I can keep my message out there.

I have had people struggle to understand kindness in its simplest forms and they can be rude or suspicious. For example I simply told a man “Bless you” on a train once after he had sneezed and the guy spent ten minutes angrily lecturing me on how he didn’t believe in that rubbish and how I should just keep my mouth shut. I think the rest of the train was about as stunned as I was! All in all not the greatest experience. However, there have been wonderful ones, like helping some friends organise and run their wedding afternoon tea, acting as Master of Ceremonies for another two weddings, singing for charity events, donating time to charity events (like the Perth Telethon, and Relay for Life, Wheelchairs for Kids, Samaritans Purse), making craft to sell at the nursing home my father lives in for a community day, or just offering my next door neighbour a cup of tea and a fresh made biscuit (She loves it and she is often gone so long, because we are chatting, that her hubby comes looking for her) ! These are things that are simple and the kindness helps me as much as it helps those I’m helping (if that makes any sense at all?).

I have health problems that sometimes stop me from doing much, but I have learned ways to perform kindnesses whilst in the foetal position or in bed with Migraines. I am pretty strong willed and if I want to get things done,I  can usually push thought the pain so that they will be done. I love that I can send a message via Facebook to a friend, to encourage them or support them if they are having a rough time. I love that I can promote a charity or event through my online community (both Facebook and my blog), I love that I can just stand up and support a range of issues all that are equally in need of love and support.

I have people, friends and others that I have only met online, contact me and share their kind deeds and or share things about kindness to me. It is wonderful.

Kindness really does make a huge difference. Just think the difference the world would be if everyone acted with kindness. It is almost a foreign concept but that is the world that is emerging at the moment. There people want to make a difference with kindness and generosity, and receive kindness as well as give it. So in the words of Gandhi “Be the change you want to see in the world” and for me its all about leading by example.

my Facebook page is: http://www.facebook.com/365daysOfKindness
And my blog is: http://365days-of-kindness.blogspot.com.au/

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Breaking the Cycle - Tenille Bentley, the Princess of Charity, was a fantastic interview and she talks about how she is breaking the cycle of domestic violence one child at a time.

* How my Dysfunctional Marriage was Transformed - Infidelity, Attempted Suicide, then the long road to a more functional marriage.  Tracy shares her story of how her marriage was saved and rejuvenated.

Award Winning Gospel Artist Steve Grace - We catch up with touring Australian Gospel legend, Steve Grace, fresh from the outback and full of great stories.

50cc Scooters – Should they be banned? - Andrew Solich puts his case for why they are dangerous and should be taken off the road.

Bar Coded by God - Hayley Solich tackles the injustice of Abortion and shares a video of one mother who was very glad she didn’t abort her baby, who was born with no eyes and a cleft pallet.

* When I said ‘I Do’ it was to Sue’s 4 Kids too! - Andrew Crawford shares his journey as a father of seven with a blended family and tackles the issues associated.

* A Passion Filled Life - We catch up with prolific author of 82 books, Jane Pelusey, who is on tour researching her next 4WD Adventure book.

* My Extraordinary Life - Carol Elzink lives a highly unusual lifestyle – Corporate high flyer and Psychologist by week day and pig farmer on the weekends.  How did this Change Management executive fall in love with pigs?

* Not Just Horsing Around - Vet Dr Judith Congrene talks about why she became a vet and what she’s done since and how she manages to do the work of a nun whilst being an Avon Lady and mobile vet and have the best of both worlds.  Why did Judith decide ‘the habit’ was not for her?

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Updated CoverWhen you hear someone’s story first hand, it has the power to change your life.  Listening to Anuradha Koirala share about the young women she works with at Maiti Nepal, I soon realised for me it was a life changing moment.  I had heard about the words “Human Trafficking” and certainly knew it was a situation that was morally not right, however, I had never connected with the pain and suffering that the people affected by human trafficking go through and so it was easy for me to push it out of my mind.  It wasn’t until I watched the documentary commissioned by Melinda & Bill Gates, that I started to really understand the devastating cost of Human Trafficking.  I also realised that once your eyes have been opened, it is a lot harder to shut out the message.

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* Painting Saved Me – Hon Ljiljanna Ravlich MP bares her soul and reveals the role painting played in maintaining her mental health as a politician.

* Less is More – Interior Stylist, Karen Creith, reveals why less is more.

* Hanging Out:  The Sad Face of Addiction – Pharmacist, Sue Crawford, explains the dangers of over the counter codeine based medications due to their addictive qualities.

* A Strange Democracy – Nathan Quigley tackles the current political climate.

* Was Democracy a good God idea? – Hayley and Andrew Solich trace democracy back to it’s roots and Celebrity Apprentice’s Ian ‘Dicko’ Dickerson is quoted in this article, as he gave a timely commentary about the best form of government during the show in 4 May, 2012.

* Playing a Bigger Game – Award winning business woman, Meredith Collins, reveals the woman behind the video marketing business.

* The Unwitty Entrepreneur – Janene Samuel, creator of the Game Tag Ninetendo DS accessory talks patents and the lifestyle change experienced when inventing a new product and getting that product to market.

*  Time:  Is it Your Friend or Enemy? – Hayley Solich examines the issue of limited time.

* Confessions of a Shopaholic – Jill Chivers bears her soul about her journey out of addiction to shopping.

* Change your Food Change Your Life – Dr Maya Nahra prepares us for lifestyle change.

* Nourishing Your Mind Part 2 – Dr Jenny Brockis continues her unveiling of the perfect road map for brain fitness.

* How Simple is Too Simple? – Debbie Ducic asks us some hard and deep questions about the future and what it might look like.

* Are You Drowning in a Sea of Stuff? – Sara Hall gives us some tips on how to start to take charge of your home and get order.

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